To commemorate Pride, I thought I’d post my poem “When I Was Straight” from my collection by the same name, published by Insight to Riot Press in 1995. While it may seem like it might not be as difficult as it was in the early eighties when I came out in my early twenties, being part of the LGBTQ community is still vitally important to me. For one thing, being a lesbian taught me how to be different. And being different is vital in being ourselves.
The poem is recorded below on YouTube and pasted below that. Enjoy and Happy Pride!
When I Was Straight
by Janet Mason
I went through a spate of sportsfucking, insisted on
being on top, and wore spurs on my heels;
I wore three shades of eye shadow, blue, brown, green,
sometimes lavender, and still couldn’t see straight;
I embraced my mirror image in the toilet basin, seat up;
I worshipped the sun and passed out from the hormones
in my birth control pills;
I went to a Halloween party with my clown of a boyfriend,
a stuffed sock bulging in my jockey shorts;
I said, “I don’t ask you to swallow my snot,” and
afterwards gagged in the sink anyway;
‘I tied a slip knot and tried to pull my head through;
I dressed up like a Martian, mauve stocking
distorting my face, and still didn’t feel at ease;
I dined on amphetamines and swallowed Valentine
chocolates whole;
I bought myself a spiked leather wristband, and snored
while my lover used it on himself, inside out;
I burnt sarcasm to a crisp on the tip of my tongue;
I poured beer into my bird whistle, trilled it onto
my boyfriend’s shirt, then tipped the can again;
I swerved toward headlights on the wrong side of the road;
I dreamt of locked boxes and wings and one morning
scratched my shoulder to find the stiff spine of a feather.
Happy Pride!
My most recent novel is available on the publisher’s website: CINNAMON: a dairy cow’s (and her farmer’s) path to freedom | Adelaide Literary Magazine (adelaidebooks.org)
and on amazon.com: Cinnamon: A dairy cow’s (and her farmer’s) path to freedom: Mason, Janet: 9781958419786: Amazon.com: Books